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In this bold, illustrated memoir, a young woman shares both a personal and sociological take on modern, “unconventional” love, exploring her own transformation from serial monogamist to proud polyamorist. After trying for years to emulate the kind of relationship her parents had—married happily for forty years—Sophie Lucido Johnson realized that maybe the love she was looki In this bold, illustrated memoir, a young woman shares both a personal and sociological take on modern, “unconventional” love, exploring her own transformation from serial monogamist to proud polyamorist. After trying for years to emulate the kind of relationship her parents had—married happily for forty years—Sophie Lucido Johnson realized that maybe the love she was looking for was down a road less traveled. In Many Love, Sophie delivers a fresh look at polyamory: its history, its misconceptions, and its new relevance among the many millennials embracing non-monogamous relationships. With a series of caring partners all the way from her high school sweetheart to her current fiancé, Sophie explores her sexuality and the very nature of love itself, questioning everything we’ve all been taught about relationships. She shares each of her revelations—sometimes painful, sometimes hilarious—and ultimately uncovers the incredible power of making room for all kinds of love in one’s life. Complete with informative charts (did you know there are five distinct types of jealousy?) and witty illustrations, Many Love is an empowering, heartwarming memoir offering a memorable glimpse into an unconventional life.


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In this bold, illustrated memoir, a young woman shares both a personal and sociological take on modern, “unconventional” love, exploring her own transformation from serial monogamist to proud polyamorist. After trying for years to emulate the kind of relationship her parents had—married happily for forty years—Sophie Lucido Johnson realized that maybe the love she was looki In this bold, illustrated memoir, a young woman shares both a personal and sociological take on modern, “unconventional” love, exploring her own transformation from serial monogamist to proud polyamorist. After trying for years to emulate the kind of relationship her parents had—married happily for forty years—Sophie Lucido Johnson realized that maybe the love she was looking for was down a road less traveled. In Many Love, Sophie delivers a fresh look at polyamory: its history, its misconceptions, and its new relevance among the many millennials embracing non-monogamous relationships. With a series of caring partners all the way from her high school sweetheart to her current fiancé, Sophie explores her sexuality and the very nature of love itself, questioning everything we’ve all been taught about relationships. She shares each of her revelations—sometimes painful, sometimes hilarious—and ultimately uncovers the incredible power of making room for all kinds of love in one’s life. Complete with informative charts (did you know there are five distinct types of jealousy?) and witty illustrations, Many Love is an empowering, heartwarming memoir offering a memorable glimpse into an unconventional life.

30 review for Many Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s)

  1. 4 out of 5

    Jessica Woodbury

    Recently I tried to read a novel about a couple that opens up their relationship. I couldn't do it. They were doing it all wrong, they were making terrible choices, they were setting themselves up for disaster, and it just kept bothering me that people would read this book and think that this was how nonmonogamy worked. I care about this because I've been nonmonogamous myself for the last few years and I've heard too many stories of people cheating on their spouses and then trying to excuse them Recently I tried to read a novel about a couple that opens up their relationship. I couldn't do it. They were doing it all wrong, they were making terrible choices, they were setting themselves up for disaster, and it just kept bothering me that people would read this book and think that this was how nonmonogamy worked. I care about this because I've been nonmonogamous myself for the last few years and I've heard too many stories of people cheating on their spouses and then trying to excuse themselves by claiming they're not cut out for monogamy. (That's not how any of this works.) Usually when people read about polyamory it's because they are attempting to be polyamorous. A lot of the books in the space are more how-to books than anything else. But Johnson's book is the first I've come across that isn't trying to be that kind of book, it may be useful for people interested in polyamory, but mostly it's for people who may have never even heard of polyamory before. Which is great! We really need that kind of book! Especially one full of personal experiences and illustrations. I did really enjoy this book, but I also found myself somewhat frustrated by its structure. It isn't told in chronological order but instead by concepts like love and jealousy. This has us jumping around through Johnson's romantic life in a way that can occasionally feel dizzying. And sometimes it feels like Johnson recounting stories of all her ex's, though the narrative of a person's love life is usually only interesting to that person. In addition, Johnson tells her own story but also spends time explaining much of the language and beliefs within polyamory, it jumps back and forth from being specific to general. It's a worthy goal but it had its downsides. While Johnson often acknowledges that polyamory can take many different forms, she mostly does that in the more instructive sections. When reading her personal stories it can feel like her version of polyamory is the only one. (For example, she mentions parallel polyamory and explains it but it's also not how she practices and she's rather quick to dismiss it, implying it's unfeeling and less valid, which was rather grating to me since that's how my relationships are formed.) Still, I definitely learned things and found myself thinking about a lot about myself and my relationships while reading. I particularly enjoyed Johnson's approach to love, one I hadn't really seen before but that aligned very nicely with a lot of what I've been pondering lately. It gave me insight into new approaches I hadn't really thought about before. I suspect that for monogamous readers there will be a lot of interesting things to consider, especially those in their 20's. I read an early version on my kindle and sometimes the formatting left a little to be desired to fit in the illustrations with the text, I'm not sure if this will be true in the final kindle version, but I'd suggest attempting to read it in print if possible.

  2. 5 out of 5

    Jenny (Reading Envy)

    I have friends in poly relationships and thought this book sounded interesting, a way to learn more. Most people will tell you to read The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities if you are interested in polyamory, but as this book's author explains, it really is focused on the sex part of polyamory, and to her, while sex is present it is not the point. (TES also serves as more of a how-to guide, and I wasn't interested for that reason, just curious how people who make it work act I have friends in poly relationships and thought this book sounded interesting, a way to learn more. Most people will tell you to read The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities if you are interested in polyamory, but as this book's author explains, it really is focused on the sex part of polyamory, and to her, while sex is present it is not the point. (TES also serves as more of a how-to guide, and I wasn't interested for that reason, just curious how people who make it work actually make it work.) This book would be an okay place to start if you don't know a lot about polyamory but are curious about it, because the author started out pretty naive about it herself, and includes that journey in the book. I only know about it through other people so while this narrative confirms what I've learned from others (mainly - polyamory requires constant communication and major jealousy maintenance), I appreciated Johnson's perspective and individual thinking on some elements. Along the lines of what I call jealousy maintenance, Sophie explains the concept of "processing."'Processing' is probably the most important word in most early polyamorous relationships. It's a euphemism that refers to what people do when they know they shouldn't be mad, but everything in their body is telling them to be mad.She talks about navigating the first time someone you love falls for someone else, which is the ultimate moment that must be navigated carefully if you are truly going to be polyamorous and not just a serial monogamist or someone who doesn't commit. Other things I found interesting - the ebb and flow of relationships, especially the drifting off of the primary or central lover in a natural way (I think monogamist people like me tend to think all relationships are forever; polygamists often accept that most relationships come to a natural end. Some, but not all.) Bed death. Post-lover friendships. Living arrangements. Whether or not it's all the same as friendship intimacy (I'm not sure I fully agree with her point of view on this one but I appreciated it!) One little note - Goodreads shelved this as a graphic novel, and I would say that while there are illustrations by the author periodically through the text, and they are delightful, there are also entire pages of text, unless the review copy is hugely different from the final version. This is heavier on memoir than graphics, in case that matters to you. Thanks to the publisher for granting access through Edelweiss. This came out June 26, 2018.

  3. 5 out of 5

    Janelle

    Many thanks to Touchstone Books for providing my free copy of MANY LOVE by Sophie Lucido Johnson - all opinions are my own. The great thing about reading memoirs is I get to learn something new or at least learn a new perspective, so I usually like to read a variety. MANY LOVE is an honest and refreshing take on love and relationships - I absolutely enjoyed it! It’s enlightening, evocative, witty, insightful, and fascinating! Johnson is a clever writer and illustrator who brings to light how she w Many thanks to Touchstone Books for providing my free copy of MANY LOVE by Sophie Lucido Johnson - all opinions are my own. The great thing about reading memoirs is I get to learn something new or at least learn a new perspective, so I usually like to read a variety. MANY LOVE is an honest and refreshing take on love and relationships - I absolutely enjoyed it! It’s enlightening, evocative, witty, insightful, and fascinating! Johnson is a clever writer and illustrator who brings to light how she went from serial monogamist to a proud polyamorist. I love how she defines the term and explains the meaning as “many love” not “many sex”. We follow her transformation from a monogamous marriage to polyamorous relationships, not focusing on finding “the one”. Ultimately, this book is also about friendships, sexuality, jealousy, and how society perceives others’ relationships. The overall construction of the memoir is brilliant. The drawings add depth and humor to the narrative. Johnson is delightfully charming and her personality really shines through. Case in point, I actually laughed-out-loud when she used the fictitious name Rory from the Gilmore Girls to protect the identity of other people. Johnson includes a FAQ section, commentary notes, and the culture and history of polyamory, all along with comic style drawings on almost every page. MANY LOVE is a provocative, interesting, and illustrated memoir I highly recommend to anyone looking for a new perspective on love.

  4. 4 out of 5

    fortuna.spinning

    This is part memoir, part explanation of the many ways polyamory can exist. Johnson writes candidly about relationships, inserting sketches that add to the narrative. She’s funny, talented, and thoughtful. I loved how the folks she didn’t want to name were referred to as Rory (a nod to Gilmore Girls). Though polyamory is not for me, I respect that it can work, and I appreciate Johnson putting herself out there. PUB DATE: 6.26.18 Thanks, NetGalley!

  5. 4 out of 5

    Touchstone Books

    Fresh, funny, original, and incredibly insightful about all relationships—polyamorous or otherwise.

  6. 5 out of 5

    Luke HoardeGalvan

    This is the book you should read this summer! A refreshing look at how love can work in 2018.

  7. 5 out of 5

    Andrienne

    Another honest book about a person’s journey to find the right relationship fit. Love already has its complications so it just follows that a multiplication of it does not decrease the issues attached to it. She brings up jealousy, sex, friendships and offers distinctions from other relationship types. Access to review copy provided by the publisher.

  8. 4 out of 5

    Lara Blackman

    A touching, sharp and witty look at polyamory through one young woman's journey - you'll laugh, cry, and think deeply about your own relationships, plus enjoy over 100 original illustrations. A truly great read :)

  9. 4 out of 5

    Kelsey

    Read and fell in love immediately. Sophie is so funny, talented, honest, thoughtful, and brave. Cannot wait for everyone to read this.

  10. 4 out of 5

    Sarah

    Such an excellent take on love and relationships. It confirmed so much for this reader. Everyone loves differently. Having been in long monogamous relationships, complicated situationships and even married, I now know a single person cannot be everything and all for you. You receive love, even if it's platonic from all forms of friendships. Having been married and divorced I now realize the greatest loves have been my friendships. Every relationship has been a life lesson. Sophie did a phenomena Such an excellent take on love and relationships. It confirmed so much for this reader. Everyone loves differently. Having been in long monogamous relationships, complicated situationships and even married, I now know a single person cannot be everything and all for you. You receive love, even if it's platonic from all forms of friendships. Having been married and divorced I now realize the greatest loves have been my friendships. Every relationship has been a life lesson. Sophie did a phenomenal job in this book often citing sources from books I have already read (some have been added to by my TBR piled) and adding her personal experiences. The graphics were a great supplement even though it was hard to read them on a kindle (sigh). Sophie's writing voice is loud and clear. It's as if you were in a bar with your closest friend who you have so much love for, drinking a moscow mule discussing the state of your relationship(s). After reading Esther Perel's book on infidelity, this was a great compliment. The polyamory take was an interesting perspective but feels a need to have a follow up book on the topic itself. It seems super complicated with two consenting adults who are 100% self aware of themselves, which seems hard. There are some great quotes which I've highlighted after yelling YES on a crowded train. Currently writing a follow up essay in response to this book. Look forward to reading more of Sophie's work. This is a great first memoir.

  11. 5 out of 5

    Madeleine (Top Shelf Text)

    Note: Top Shelf Text received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. I'll admit, this book was a little out of my wheelhouse, but it came highly recommended and turned out to be a fascinating read. The author writes about her journey from failed monogamous relationships to discovering polamory and navigating the various facets of relationship anarchy. The memoir is written as though you're sitting down for coffee with a girlfriend, and it was so helpful and Note: Top Shelf Text received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. I'll admit, this book was a little out of my wheelhouse, but it came highly recommended and turned out to be a fascinating read. The author writes about her journey from failed monogamous relationships to discovering polamory and navigating the various facets of relationship anarchy. The memoir is written as though you're sitting down for coffee with a girlfriend, and it was so helpful and accessible to readers like me, who have no experience with polamory, but lots of questions. I came away with a better understanding of why people choose to be polyamorous, and I'd recommend this to anyone curious about the topic.

  12. 4 out of 5

    Dan

    I liked this book quite a bit. It's kind of written as an introduction to polyamory, and it's honestly not the best at being a comprehensive guide, but it is also actually really well-written and enjoyable to read, which just can't be said about a lot of the other books in this genre. So I probably won't start recommending this as the go to nonmonogamy 101 text, but I am really glad I read it. And there were definitely a few new ideas in it, and she really fleshes out some ideas that other people t I liked this book quite a bit. It's kind of written as an introduction to polyamory, and it's honestly not the best at being a comprehensive guide, but it is also actually really well-written and enjoyable to read, which just can't be said about a lot of the other books in this genre. So I probably won't start recommending this as the go to nonmonogamy 101 text, but I am really glad I read it. And there were definitely a few new ideas in it, and she really fleshes out some ideas that other people talked about more theoretically with some concrete examples and personal experience. Like, I've heard people talk about treating their friendships more like Relationships, but this book gave me a clearer idea of what that could look like in action. There's a part where the author's interacting with the poly scene in Chicago at a time when I was poly and living in Chicago but not interacting with that scene, which I guess feels weird for me to read, like I simultaneous feel very close and very disconnected from the subject matter.

  13. 4 out of 5

    Danielle

    Well, I gave this a quick read because it sounded like an interesting look at social and relationship dynamics that don't get written about very often but maybe I missed something. 'Married, heterosexual woman had some girl crushes in college and now has close, platonic female friends' doesn't sound all that new or interesting to me and, unless I missed a chapter or something, that's what this book seems to be about. It was also really disjointed which made it annoying to read.

  14. 5 out of 5

    NaomiRuth

    This was a really good read, very engaging. I didn't want to put it down! I especially loved her chapter "Just" "Friends" because I related to it. so. much. It really helped me understand my own relationship models. Also, love the concept of relationship anarchy and was happy that on one of the charts she included asexuals *happy smile* A wonderful read and very important one!

  15. 4 out of 5

    Laura

    Really enjoyed her writing style and the illustrations were charming and relatable. An interesting look at all sorts of complicated things: love and friends and relationships and definitions and communication. Very outside my personal frame of reference and it has opened up a new way of thinking about myself and others.

  16. 5 out of 5

    Tabor

    3 1/2 stars. I liked this and I think Johnson has an important message for all women not just those who are polyamory about loving yourself, wanting what is pleasurable and telling a man exactly what you need.

  17. 4 out of 5

    Kayo

    This book was all over the place. Felt disconnected, and not complete, like she just started writing and had no direction. Thanks to author,publisher and NetGalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free,it had no bearing on the rating i gave it.

  18. 4 out of 5

    Jilsann

    This book was my first reading experience concerning polyamory. As much as I thought that it was completely fascinating; I would pay the tribute to the topic and not the writing. In the very beginning, the author made multiple uses of a phrase that is just an absolute pet peeve of mine. The: "I am going to talk about this later". Ugh, why can't she just talk about that topic then and there? Or, if it didn't fit in the beginning, why couldn't she just leave the phrase out? Furthermore, throughout This book was my first reading experience concerning polyamory. As much as I thought that it was completely fascinating; I would pay the tribute to the topic and not the writing. In the very beginning, the author made multiple uses of a phrase that is just an absolute pet peeve of mine. The: "I am going to talk about this later". Ugh, why can't she just talk about that topic then and there? Or, if it didn't fit in the beginning, why couldn't she just leave the phrase out? Furthermore, throughout the different aspects of polyamory, the writing feels quite jumpy. Just like the connection with the past and current lovers. If there are a lot of people involved (as might be the case in a non-monogamous relationships) and the timeline when one relationship ended and the next started are not in chronological order, there might be confusion. Sophie tried to help with a sketch of her past male lovers... But she also had female ones, which where never shown as easily comprehensible. And just like the writing, she also jumped with the explanations between different parts of her relationship with different men. (Because, at the end of it, it still felt like the men in her life were more primary then the women.) You could feel, when she was actively trying to use humour and from her writing I would guess that she is someone, who likes hearing herself talk. And preferably about birds ... Gosh, there were so many stories influenced by her obsession with bird-watching (not birding, as that is something completely different). All in all, this was a comfortable read, with nice infographics and it definitely informed me more about polyamory, although the author's style did not click with me, I appreciated her efforts.

  19. 5 out of 5

    Lauren LaBorde

    Even if you don't think you're interested in polyamory, this book will appeal to anyone who is tired of the rigid labels we've learned to assign to the "many loves" in our lives. I especially love how this book explores the close, complex relationships women have with their female friends. Part memoir, part graphic novel, part reported piece on alternate relationship models, "Many Love" is a fun, poignant, one-of-a-kind read.

  20. 4 out of 5

    Mike Hammer

    This was a fascinating book. It was by no means a definitive work on the subject of polyamory, but it was a neat exploration into how relationships are structured for different people.

  21. 5 out of 5

    Dan Abromowitz

    I "many loved" it!!!!!

  22. 4 out of 5

    Katie

    SOPHIE!!

  23. 5 out of 5

    Greta Stuhlsatz

    Two of my favorite women in my life recommended this book to me. After reading the first chapter, I decided I needed to buy it because I will read it over and over and over again and I wanted to destroy it with my highlighter. Sophie perfectly provides so many words to so many of my feelings about love and many other areas of life. A perfect example when discussing consent: "With all these people asking me if they could touch me or kiss me or hold me, I truly felt, for the first time in my entir Two of my favorite women in my life recommended this book to me. After reading the first chapter, I decided I needed to buy it because I will read it over and over and over again and I wanted to destroy it with my highlighter. Sophie perfectly provides so many words to so many of my feelings about love and many other areas of life. A perfect example when discussing consent: "With all these people asking me if they could touch me or kiss me or hold me, I truly felt, for the first time in my entire life, that my body was desirable, and that it belonged only to me." As some may know, I'm polyamorous and a social scientist who studies relationships. Most of the books I've read on polyamory are very prescriptive about how polyamory should be done and often shame monogamy. Further, many completely disregard the research or cherry pick papers to help make their points. Sophie includes research from many disciplines and about many sides of polyamory, she doesn't describe exactly how one should participate in polyamory because she is simply discusses her personal journey. I cannot explain how much I loved this book and how much it means to me. I hope anyone in my life who is curious, confused, or even conscious of polyamory reads it. Thank you, Katie and Erin. I love you both so much!

  24. 5 out of 5

    Carly

    I really enjoy reading memoirs and part of that reason is because we get to learn about the personal experiences of others. I also love how their lives can be so different from our own, but we are still able to connect with their stories and relate in many ways. Many Love is about Johnson's journey of love as she becomes polyamorous and learns to open her life to many loves. I have never considered polyamory as an option for me, but I know that there are so many different ways to love and we hav I really enjoy reading memoirs and part of that reason is because we get to learn about the personal experiences of others. I also love how their lives can be so different from our own, but we are still able to connect with their stories and relate in many ways. Many Love is about Johnson's journey of love as she becomes polyamorous and learns to open her life to many loves. I have never considered polyamory as an option for me, but I know that there are so many different ways to love and we have too many misconceived notions in our heads about what is appropriate. Johnson shows that polyamory is not just about sex, but about making room in your life for many relationships on a deeper level than just friendship. I think this is something we can all utilize, whether we are monogamous or not. Johnson is honest and humorous with her writing. She details her experiences in a way that made me immediately want to befriend her. I also love how she gives certain people the name Rory because of her love for Gilmore Girls. There are also many fun drawings throughout which add to the overall joyous feel of the book.

  25. 4 out of 5

    Alice Lemon

    This book was kind of interesting, but I'm also glad it was short enough that I could get through it quickly, because I wasn't that impressed. I kind of disliked the non-chronological style, and definitely disliked the mixture of random drawings and cartoons that seemed to contain important information but that it was hard for me to fit into the flow of the text. As a polyamorous non-binary person who never dated or was sexual with anyone until they were 29, and who has only done so with other tr This book was kind of interesting, but I'm also glad it was short enough that I could get through it quickly, because I wasn't that impressed. I kind of disliked the non-chronological style, and definitely disliked the mixture of random drawings and cartoons that seemed to contain important information but that it was hard for me to fit into the flow of the text. As a polyamorous non-binary person who never dated or was sexual with anyone until they were 29, and who has only done so with other trans people, I found a lot of what Johnson describes alien and weird. (This has been my experience in general with my other interactions with largely-straight polyamorous communities.) It just feels like I'm watching people grope around in the dark toward figuring out how to do things that seem normal and natural to me...like, I don't actually understand how the "normal" sort of straight relationship and social life works.

  26. 5 out of 5

    Jai

    I really started out liking this book, mostly it was because it was a "new" type of poly book. I liked that there were sketches to break up the monotony of the words in the page. It was all ok. Maybe I should give half a star for the sketches in the book...hmmm maybe. I gave this book a rating of 2 stars because I didn't like the book. I didn't like how the author penned polyamory as a series of "hookups" then she's constantly jealous but wants to be polyamorous. As a poly woman I find this offen I really started out liking this book, mostly it was because it was a "new" type of poly book. I liked that there were sketches to break up the monotony of the words in the page. It was all ok. Maybe I should give half a star for the sketches in the book...hmmm maybe. I gave this book a rating of 2 stars because I didn't like the book. I didn't like how the author penned polyamory as a series of "hookups" then she's constantly jealous but wants to be polyamorous. As a poly woman I find this offense. There's already a stereotype about poly people and she's just perpetuating it. Polyamory isn't about sex for those that identify as Asexual. They don't need to hookup with multiple people. This book should about open relationships and being sex positive. I'm not trying to shame the author, but I found that she didn't grow at all in her poly journey and maybe that was what I was hoping for.

  27. 5 out of 5

    Brookemower

    I couldn’t put it down because the story is superb, honest, funny. The authors vulnerability and writing style makes a great addictive page turner. It is such a relief to hear a woman’s story about love from such an original perspective. I have no predisposed reason to love this book (55 years old, happily monogamous etc) but as a feminist and reader, I am heartened to find a new voice. It turns out that Sophie has lots of insight about how all of us love and connect and define our relationships I couldn’t put it down because the story is superb, honest, funny. The authors vulnerability and writing style makes a great addictive page turner. It is such a relief to hear a woman’s story about love from such an original perspective. I have no predisposed reason to love this book (55 years old, happily monogamous etc) but as a feminist and reader, I am heartened to find a new voice. It turns out that Sophie has lots of insight about how all of us love and connect and define our relationships. Her story is very relatable and entertaining (even if you don’t connect to the specifics). It was also a generous, eye opening and clear headed window into the way relationships are evolving and opening (in opposition to our country’s repressed cultural climate).

  28. 4 out of 5

    Amanda

    I really enjoyed this book and thought the illustrations were very cute and added to its readability. Although the centralizing of female friendships was refreshing since it challenged the idea that these friendships are somehow inferior to romantic or sexual relationships, something that puzzled me was the fact that the author seemed to gloss over her sexual relationships with women. Although she does mention dating women, the way she discusses these relationships seems almost dismissive and th I really enjoyed this book and thought the illustrations were very cute and added to its readability. Although the centralizing of female friendships was refreshing since it challenged the idea that these friendships are somehow inferior to romantic or sexual relationships, something that puzzled me was the fact that the author seemed to gloss over her sexual relationships with women. Although she does mention dating women, the way she discusses these relationships seems almost dismissive and they are not explored with the same amount of depth that she focuses on her relationships with men.

  29. 5 out of 5

    Brenna

    This is a memoir about what it means to be polyamorous. I picked it up after reading a review mostly because I was curious to learn more. How does it work? Can you really love more than one person at once? What about jealously? What about sex? How can you be committed to more than one person? I got my answers, but I also got an exhaustively detailed description of most every relationship the author has been in since high school. I wanted more of a focus on the polyamorous lifestyle as a whole, bu This is a memoir about what it means to be polyamorous. I picked it up after reading a review mostly because I was curious to learn more. How does it work? Can you really love more than one person at once? What about jealously? What about sex? How can you be committed to more than one person? I got my answers, but I also got an exhaustively detailed description of most every relationship the author has been in since high school. I wanted more of a focus on the polyamorous lifestyle as a whole, but since I learned a lot about this relationship philosophy and it was a semi-fun read I’m giving it a solid three stars.

  30. 5 out of 5

    Harper

    Picked this up on a whim because I’m always on the lookout for good new books about polyamory that aren’t just about sleeping around. This one definitely fits the bill. A lovely thoughtful reflection on love, friendship, relationships, & life, with good references, sweet illustrations, meaningful narrative, and some practical advice. The timeline of the author’s life & relationships gets a little confusing, but the book is clearly structured that way on purpose to focus more on concepts Picked this up on a whim because I’m always on the lookout for good new books about polyamory that aren’t just about sleeping around. This one definitely fits the bill. A lovely thoughtful reflection on love, friendship, relationships, & life, with good references, sweet illustrations, meaningful narrative, and some practical advice. The timeline of the author’s life & relationships gets a little confusing, but the book is clearly structured that way on purpose to focus more on concepts than her personal narrative, which she uses as examples. Not quite a memoir and not quite a how to guide, but a nice mix of the two - & it kept my interest more than most nonfiction books do because of it.

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